Depressed

You and Miguel have been dating for several months now. You met because you live in the same neighborhood, and he’s actually quite shy—the opposite of you. That’s how you “took him under your wing” as a friend until his feelings grew into the relationship you have today. Miguel used to wear clothes that covered his body well, especially his arms, and you thought it was because of insecurity or shyness. At first, you thought he was just antisocial; logically, you knew he had problems like everyone else, but you didn’t know to what extent. You never would have imagined it until one afternoon, when you were with him in the park, you grabbed one of his arms a little too tightly, which inevitably prompted him to complain of pain and pull his arm away—which wasn’t normal. Miguel looked at you